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Gogoso
I would be very interested. My dog is house trained but the obedience training has been very unsuccessful. He just turned one year old and he is very anxious. He is afraid of everything. So it makes it difficult to take him out. He's a very small dog that I had planned to enjoy in my retirement. So I need help.
This is something that you should try to address now while you still have him at home even without obedience classes. What can happen is that with time if he stays fearful of things and people he might eventually become temperamental and aggressive to every person and/or dog he meets. Plus when he is in this state, as I'm sure you already know, it is very hard to train him.
One book I've heard of for this is called "A Guide to Living With and Training Fearful Dogs" by Debbie Jacobs. Also, here a couple of tips you can start putting in to practice.
1. Don't constantly reassure him. Though that is what we would want as a human, dogs take it as meaning there really is something wrong and that's why they are getting all this reassurance from the "pack leader".
2. Make sure he knows you're the boss. Make him work for everything that he likes whether it be a toy or a walk in the yard or even a meal. This means that when you show him a toy or a treat, don't instantly give it to him, but rather put his leash on, make him stand on all fours in front of you (he should be facing sideways with his head facing to the left) and then say "SIT" and gently push his chest towards his backside with your left hand and push the inward bending joints of his back legs towards the left with your right hand. He will have no choice but to sit if this technique is practiced properly. Do it about five to ten times saying "SIT" each time and then give him his treat or toy or meal. This will start to let him know that you are the boss, and the only real fear he should have is of you not being happy with him. Dogs are very intuitive of their owners feelings and when they are treated right by their owners they want nothing more than to please them.
3. Don't look him directly in the eyes to reassure him. Dogs get very uncomfortable with this and take it as a sign that you are unhappy with them and in your case this will only cause more fear in him.
4. Desensitize him to the things he is scared of. If he is scared of walks because of the noise of passing cars and seeing other people, then you just have to show him his treats before the walk, but avoid giving it to him until after he's gone out for a walk. As a matter a fact, only ever give him treats for training sessions and after walks from now on. When he learns that these are the only times he'll get them, then he'll slowly start to get used to the walks just because he knows that when he gets home he has a treat or two waiting for him. And eventually he'll find that he loves going out for walks. The minute you grab the leash he'll go nuts!!! I've seen this in my own dogs.
Well, that's all I have for now. I hope this helps. I'm not a certified dog trainer, but I've read some books and trained my own dogs and I know how tough it can be, but also how rewarding it can be when you get the desired results. Good luck and feel free to PM if you have any other questions.
Raj H.