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DavidWilliams
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New to the islands, living on St. Thomas. Need information on Lifestyle couples etc. Where do they meet, clubs, on line groups etc.

Been in the lifestyle for a few years now, and want to reconnect with others that enjoy it also.

Please send PM with any details that you could provide.

David

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Topic starter Posted : April 11, 2009 12:01 pm
DavidWilliams
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Thanks for those that have responded already,

DW

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Topic starter Posted : April 12, 2009 11:07 am
dntw8up
(@dntw8up)
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IF you received PMs, you can thank the senders via PMs. There's no need to thank via the forum for PMs.

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Posted : April 12, 2009 6:24 pm
Ms Information
(@Ms_Information)
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Gosh David, We had to stop swinging here when the hurricane blew down our big tree. The kids said the rope was getting frayed anyway and the swing seat was starting to get splinters. We hope you can find a tree to swing from on stt .:P

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Posted : April 12, 2009 11:46 pm
roadrunner
(@roadrunner)
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Hilarious, Ms Information. Love it!

My suspicion is that this guy didn't get *any* PMs, and his little thank you note was posted in an attempt to make people believe they wouldn't be the only one if they PM him. Otherwise, like dntw8up said, why bother?

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Posted : April 13, 2009 12:00 am
DavidWilliams
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Not to get into a pissing match or anything, but one to all is quicker than one to each. If the lifestyle is not for you, don't bother reading. It is clear in the subject line, what the topic is, so stay clear if it is something you just chose to mock, or make pointless comments about. Thank you,

DW

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Topic starter Posted : April 13, 2009 11:14 am
SistaIrijah
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greetings

and perhaps sir, you should post your wants and needs on a board that is more conducive to your particular lifestyle.:-o

guidance

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Posted : April 13, 2009 4:00 pm
Betty
(@Betty)
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Its a troll don't respond to anything it says. He wants you to get upset and carry on the discussion.

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Posted : April 13, 2009 4:07 pm
QueenofdeRock
(@QueenofdeRock)
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Different lifestyles for folks, I see nothing wrong with the post. We've had people ask about Transgender, CD and gay lifestyles, nothing wrong with asking about swinging lifestyles in the islands.

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Posted : April 13, 2009 6:27 pm
islandtyme
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As long as everyone is mindful of the HIGHER risk factor of HIV & STD's here & take precautions........
Not my cup of tea...............but as they say different stokes........... :$)

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Posted : April 13, 2009 7:20 pm
Cheeseheads
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I had the same thought as sis, not because I was offended or feel the question shouldn't be posted here, Just not real sure that most on this board would have knowledge unless it's thier lifestyle.

Sample conversation at the local watering hole:

"Hey Joe did you go to the swingers party Tom and Sue threw last weekend?"

"No but Mike said he and his wife made it and it was really wild, maybe we should try to make it to the next one"

lol

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Posted : April 14, 2009 3:03 pm
dntw8up
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"Not to get into a pissing match or anything, but one to all is quicker than one to each."

Hard to believe you're getting so many PMs on the matter that you can't manage to thank each respondent via PM.

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Posted : April 14, 2009 6:17 pm
QueenofdeRock
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Cheeseheads: "Just not real sure that most on this board would have knowledge unless it's thier lifestyle."

I can't even begin to imagine/know what goes on behind closed doors of people who post here!

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Posted : April 14, 2009 6:49 pm
islandjoan
(@islandjoan)
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I personally have heard more than one person mention the "wife swapping" out East!

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Posted : April 14, 2009 7:18 pm
islandtyme
(@islandtyme)
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I personally have heard more than one person mention the "wife swapping" out East!

😮

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Posted : April 14, 2009 7:25 pm
islandjoan
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I know, islandtyme, it's shocking! I'm not making it up, and for the record, NOT something I'd partake in, either! The out East that I refer to is STX, btw....

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Posted : April 14, 2009 7:30 pm
Yearasta
(@Yearasta)
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I don't see why ANYONE should flame someone because they asked a question...or even tell them to ask it somewhere else. If you don't want to answer then don't answer...but to tell them to go ask it elsewhere is asinine.

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Posted : April 14, 2009 11:15 pm
dntw8up
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Yearasta,

SistaIrijah is the only poster to suggest some other forum might better meet the original posters needs, and SistaIrijah wasn't rude so her recommendation could not be considered flaming the original poster.

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Posted : April 14, 2009 11:35 pm
Yearasta
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dntw8up...you are correct..he was not flamed in the sense of the word, however the treatment his question got would deter people from asking questions. The poster was not rude either, he merely asked a question. I do think A question that pertains to the islands which I thought this board was supposed to be for. I don't see why anyone should be deterred from asking a question here. (although I think the "Thanks for those that have responded already" was some kind of tactic)

Unless the person is asking something ridiculous like where to buy drugs etc etc....I don't think we should make anyone feel that they cannot ask a question here nor should we decide whether this board is conducive to their needs or not, because I assure you the alternative lifestyle is more prevalent than most think.

As Betty said he could be a troll...and believe me I am not trying to drag this out...But just because we may or may not agree with someones lifestyle choices I don't think we should....(well hell dntw8up i can't think of a better word)...flame them

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Posted : April 14, 2009 11:56 pm
DUN
 DUN
(@DUN)
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Yearasta is right, who are we to judge?

Yo Daivd, what`s your other 1/2 look like?
i`m kinda fat & old,
Is she into old fat (but really hot) dudes?
I`m not knocking, just having fun, I`m sure my thin, sweet other 1/2 wouldn`t mind or beat me if I brought it up to her....right!

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Posted : April 15, 2009 12:11 am
A Davis
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dntw8up...you are correct..he was not flamed in the sense of the word, however the treatment his question got would deter people from asking questions. The poster was not rude either, he merely asked a question. I do think A question that pertains to the islands which I thought this board was supposed to be for. I don't see why anyone should be deterred from asking a question here. (although I think the "Thanks for those that have responded already" was some kind of tactic)

i think that was a "bump". that's responding to your own post to bring it to the top of the list of current topics in hopes of giving others a chance to respond just in case fast-moving conversation pushed it lower.

i cannot assume that it was intentional, but if it was... that's what it was.

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Posted : April 15, 2009 12:45 am
Uttica
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Why does everyone assume the worst?

It's probably a simple post looking for golf partners!

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Posted : April 15, 2009 10:56 am
A Davis
(@A_Davis)
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Why does everyone assume the worst?

It's probably a simple post looking for golf partners!

LOL!!! 😀

no matter what, if that's what he's seeking i am sure he will find it. we've got a bit o' errthang hurr.

by the by... here is a place where folks seek out what's not readily apparent: http://www.tropicromance.com/

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Posted : April 15, 2009 11:50 am
QueenofdeRock
(@QueenofdeRock)
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I did some googling and came up with this site:

http://www.swingersailing.com/

This site was recently updated and with an AOL email address. I'm sure this person could point you in the right direction for the lifestyle you're seeking.

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Posted : April 15, 2009 1:40 pm
islandtyme
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OH my Islandjoan...............east stx....wowsers, wonder if I know them.....never mind I just DON'T want to know..............

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Posted : April 15, 2009 2:26 pm
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