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Neil
 Neil
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Never knew your husband and don't think we've ever met, but like many here, I've been through something on this scale, and my thoughts are with you.

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Posted : October 9, 2010 8:19 pm
ms411
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Pamela, so sorry to hear that he'll no longer be a physical presence, but his spirit can never be extinguished. You've given so much to him as well as people on this board, that if you need anything, please don't hesitate to ask. It's your time to let others give to you.

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Posted : October 9, 2010 9:16 pm
AbovetheCliff
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Sorry to hear about your loss. Best wishes

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Posted : October 10, 2010 12:20 am
pamela
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Thanks be to all of you. I am coping thanks to good folks .... will be back on the board soon.

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Topic starter Posted : October 10, 2010 4:52 am
Sauceress
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I am sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you
Deidre

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Posted : October 10, 2010 7:41 am
sailerman1984
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Im sorry for your loss Pamela; I did not know your husband but I can relate so well because I lost my wife who used to be the office mgr at yacht haven marina I hope you will be ok and yes they are in a better place.. god love you sweetie and if you need anything please contact me. Ie lied here a long time and left a long time but back on the island. You take care of yourself and harl and I know it's hard.
I will always be your friend and there for you.
Sincerely Bruno Brunoherff@gmail.com

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Posted : October 11, 2010 2:05 am
MistB'Haven
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Blessings to you and your family.

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Posted : October 11, 2010 3:42 am
roadrunner
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So sorry to hear that, Pamela. He was fortunate to have you.

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Posted : October 11, 2010 12:59 pm
pamela
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Thank you all. I had a dream - hallucination - vision - whatever you want to call it yesterday. He is in a lovely place with his mom, dad and my very favorite uncle. He told me goodbye and to be happy. I am well. As Anna (from the the other board) Toad and Tart pointed out I now have a journey of emotions. There will be good days and bad days and at the end of the journey I will find that I am probably not the same person I was but I will be happy if that is what I strive for. So many many thanks to all of you. I am peace with it although still unutterably sad. He was my best friend for many. many years. I am well with lots of thanks for your well wishes. It is nice to know I am not alone.

Pamela

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Topic starter Posted : October 11, 2010 2:41 pm
Irijah
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bless-ed love to you and yours

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Posted : October 11, 2010 5:25 pm
Ronnie
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My condolences as well.

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Posted : October 11, 2010 8:10 pm
aseafarer
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Pamela: i've followed your very helpful posts for years. Your spirit shines thru. Prayers and good thoughts.
j/f
soon island come

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Posted : October 13, 2010 2:42 pm
jettbaby
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pamela, i am so sorry for your loss. may the holy spirit comfort you in these days

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Posted : October 16, 2010 1:47 am
DUN
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Pam , i'm very sorry to hear.
i had the same sort of vision when my dad passed.
He let me know he was ok, & I saw flashbacks of many nice memories from the past.
i too thought I was hallucinating.
7 years latter, I still think of, & cherish that vision, it was very powerful.
Glad to see you today, take care he is still with you.

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Posted : October 17, 2010 1:22 am
Neil
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Thank you all. I had a dream - hallucination - vision - whatever you want to call it yesterday. He is in a lovely place with his mom, dad and my very favorite uncle. He told me goodbye and to be happy. I am well. As Anna (from the the other board) Toad and Tart pointed out I now have a journey of emotions. There will be good days and bad days and at the end of the journey I will find that I am probably not the same person I was but I will be happy if that is what I strive for. So many many thanks to all of you. I am peace with it although still unutterably sad. He was my best friend for many. many years. I am well with lots of thanks for your well wishes. It is nice to know I am not alone.

Pamela

Many years ago when my dad died, I had a dream about meeting him in the kitchen after his death and talking to him. The dream felt real and the conversation was specific and memorable. It really unsetteld me for a while, then became a gift.

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Posted : October 20, 2010 11:51 am
NugBlazer
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I don't even know you, yet I feel at least some connection because we're all part of the small VI family. Therefore, please accept my condolences. The sun will rise tomorrow.

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Posted : October 20, 2010 11:31 pm
pamela
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Aww, you guys are too good. The love, the well wishes and prayers are helping. He was with me for so long,

I have adopted a new plan of action. 1. Breathe. 2. Get out of bed once a day. 3. Take out the trash once a week. So far, so good. Still crying at moments when I am not concentrating on something very specific but it it is working out.

DUN - call me, please?

Pamela

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Topic starter Posted : October 21, 2010 12:05 am
MockoJumbie
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Pamela, it sounds like your years together were deep and rich. A very big loss...may your heart be comforted through this difficult time.

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Posted : October 23, 2010 1:49 pm
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